tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7682312585713348709.post2209455420780854914..comments2024-03-28T04:17:20.834-07:00Comments on The Daily Connoisseur: Life At Home: Cut the DistractionsThe Daily Connoisseurhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13843902889491327636noreply@blogger.comBlogger28125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7682312585713348709.post-57739097374325243272015-01-18T20:09:58.128-08:002015-01-18T20:09:58.128-08:00Jennifer, I am the worst offender when it comes to...Jennifer, I am the worst offender when it comes to wasting time online. Luckily I've found something that often helps - it's an app called "SelfControl" that I downloaded to my computer. There are plenty of similar apps out there. Basically, you set the timer for anywhere from 15 min to 5 hours, and it will turn OFF your internet - completely blocks access. It's brilliant!<br /><br />Also, I wanted to say that I just read At Home with Madame Chic, and you truly inspired me. My home is now very, very close to clutter-free. And beautiful. I cleared out old clothes, tossing the hole-y ones and giving the good ones to charity; I cleared out my bathroom sink cabinet, my dresser drawers, my desk drawers, all over the course of this long weekend. And guess what? De-cluttering helped me find an important legal form (health care proxy for my father) that my family and I have been missing for months. So THANK YOU!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7682312585713348709.post-80821685934395875142015-01-17T12:40:29.266-08:002015-01-17T12:40:29.266-08:00I love your positive attitude ...
and inspiratio...I love your positive attitude ...<br /> and inspirational books :)<br />Thank you!wildnettlehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00127102228279039384noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7682312585713348709.post-3909610425788297472015-01-16T21:13:50.507-08:002015-01-16T21:13:50.507-08:00Hi Jennifer, I have to write again because I final...Hi Jennifer, I have to write again because I finally tried your sour cream coffee cake recipe. Oh la la! C'est fantastique! I've been making a similar sour cream bundt cake for the past 25 years, but I never thought of putting a cinnamon filling inside it. My teenage son said, "How do you make this magicalness?" He ate it for breakfast, afternoon tea and dessert! I'm looking forward to trying your other recipes and to all your future posts on your blog. In terms of distractions, there is certainly a great deal out there to make us feel distracted and upset. Just take a step outside one's door. Your work, Jennifer, reminds me to stay focused on the things I can control and to do the best I can with my own life and to hopefully set an example for others. Being a member of the "Madame Chic" family feels like coming home. :-) AlexandraLadylikehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17830602869390035670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7682312585713348709.post-57556403705718653162015-01-16T11:33:05.069-08:002015-01-16T11:33:05.069-08:00Congrats, Jennifer on the hosting gig! This is my ...Congrats, Jennifer on the hosting gig! This is my first time commenting, but I've been following your blog for a good long while and I just adored your first book. I work from home so I'm constantly reminded each day of your attitude towards always looking presentable as a means of fighting the "stay in pajamas" urge.<br /><br />As always, this posts offers lots of really good tips for starting the new year off the Madame Chic way. Really enjoyed reading it. Thank you!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7682312585713348709.post-23040624725988351072015-01-15T17:15:55.696-08:002015-01-15T17:15:55.696-08:00Hi Jennifer!
Thank you for your inspiring vblog t...Hi Jennifer!<br /><br />Thank you for your inspiring vblog this week. I have a request- would you be willing to host or share a brainstorm of quality ways to relax and sink into some well deserved pleasure at the end of a long day or when one finds themselves with an unexpected pocket of time?<br /><br />I love reading but sometimes I want something else and I when I am tired it can be challenging to think up creative new ideas.<br /><br />I hope you take me up on my request... I look forward to checking out folks suggestions.<br /><br />ClelieUnknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09805820822322819209noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7682312585713348709.post-78045520173938802032015-01-15T15:07:36.235-08:002015-01-15T15:07:36.235-08:00Hello Jennifer :)
Thank You for yet another timely...Hello Jennifer :)<br />Thank You for yet another timely idea! First, love the plan for the 'Life At Home' series...SO looking forward to making some positive changes around our household to allow us to live a quality life! And, I love the idea of Cutting the Distractions. My husband and I have been talking about giving up internet & tv at our house for awhile now. It's time to just do it. (we have to have it at our business, so I will still get to check in, thankfully!!)<br />Not sure if you know about this project, but <a href="http://www.aliedwards.com" rel="nofollow">Ali Edwards</a> runs a class through the year called One Little Word. The short of it is, that you choose a word, and monthly she gives prompts and creative challenges to help you apply your word to your life, in whatever way you want to. There a gazillion ways to benefit from it, and it's lots of creative fun. But, my word this year is 'Choose'. <br />I picked it very purposefully to encourage myself to make positive, healthy, happy choices this year (and hopefully much longer). I know I'm not alone, but for a long time now, I've been in a deep rut of just reacting in the same old ways to situations, thoughts, things people say/do, you name it. <br />It's TIME, for new thought patterns, happy and healthy choices, living a quality life, and spending my time in a quality fashion. So this? Your series...your books...your (& Madame Chic's) philosophies of life...are the perfect match for me just now. <br />I have already decluttered my closet, and am nearly there with the 10 item wardrobe - BEST IDEA EVER!!!!! I'm working on some of the other areas that need improvement as well, but taking it slow, so the changes will become permanent. Trying to develop one good habit at a time :D<br />So, Thank You!! And the series, and the new book? BRING THEM ON!! Can't wait!Inkfanatichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04068943331231895254noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7682312585713348709.post-14028163791170340572015-01-14T13:41:15.321-08:002015-01-14T13:41:15.321-08:00Hi Jennifer,
I am so excited about this series! ...Hi Jennifer, <br /><br />I am so excited about this series! I've loved both of your books! I just love what everything you share. :) I am striving to live a quality life as well (though at times it is so hard in our culture of fast food, cheap products, and, as you mentioned, screens, screens, screens.)<br /><br />I was wondering if you have ever heard of Charlotte Mason? She led educational reform in England. Her method is now mostly used for homeschooling as there are very few of her schools left (a shame in my opinion.)<br /><br />I think you would find her and her theory of education very interesting. She was a big believer in "living literature" as opposed to "twaddle" (which she defined as watered down and quality-less books for children), a huge promoter of the arts and making them a large part of children's education, as well as teaching life skills and quality habits.<br /><br />It is funny to me how much overlap there is between so much of what I read. I just thought you might find her interesting if you've never heard of her before. :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02701652742034405961noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7682312585713348709.post-29697287892264057002015-01-14T10:14:52.326-08:002015-01-14T10:14:52.326-08:00Life is a distraction ... getting up and then goin...Life is a distraction ... getting up and then going onto the computer before one gets showered; being distracted by the post/mail when the dishwasher should've been stacked/emptied; watching daytime TV when there is a writing deadline to meet; but that is life, so beware 'oughts' and 'shoulds', the little niggly voices which tell us we ought to be doing this or we should be doing that. Yes, we might become more efficient, but I think we will find that we don't free up time so that we can have more so-called 'quality' time, we will just either continue to work or fritter that saved-time away. But the idea is a nice one, not to be distracted by so many outside influences. I just don't think I could keep up the regime!<br />Margaret Pgalanthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14190356279359463949noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7682312585713348709.post-27598377219956054042015-01-13T21:28:43.171-08:002015-01-13T21:28:43.171-08:00Jennifer, what a great post! I have a built in saf...Jennifer, what a great post! I have a built in safeguard against techno distraction at my house. My cats. They are forever climbing over my iPad to bonk me on the nose, laying down on the tv remote, and shoving my phone off the table. They are saying to me in their furry way, "mommy, pay attention to US! We are more fun anyway!"<br /><br />And so they are. A few years ago, I decided I was getting too caught in people's Facebook drama and letting it upset me, so I deleted all media apps from my phone. That didn't seem to be quite enough, though, so I eventually deactivated my accounts. I have been much happier since then. Now if could just break my addiction to Pinterest...Karihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04613686858533582591noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7682312585713348709.post-27771106874607797792015-01-13T12:53:08.192-08:002015-01-13T12:53:08.192-08:00I don't know that there is ONE big thing but a...I don't know that there is ONE big thing but a bunch of little things that distract me. I know I cannot be my best self with clutter around the house! So, after reading your books I have made a good effort to get rid of this. It is a constant battle! ;) <br /><br />I have also just realized that after 2 years of having my husband and I commute and work away from home, what a huge toll it took on our house & our home lives. Now, that I'm done working out of the home, I am tackling the toll little by little and loving how I feel around my house!! <br /><br />I also am taking on your "capsule wardrobe" idea and really trying to think about what I purchase and NEED. It is a learning process but I'm getting there. And it's a fun and unique challenge.<br /><br />I also want to thank you so much for the brilliance of your cleaning schedule. I used to always get overwhelmed by having a day to clean and something would always stop me from getting it all done (C'est la vie) and I would feel bad about myself and the house wasn't the way I liked it, etc. and go into a downward spiral and be discouraged.<br /><br />Then, after reading your books, I decided to commit myself to the schedule you put out and I can tell you I feel like a different person. I'm happier in my home, I'm able to get that day's cleaning done, because it is a REASONABLE amount to do, not the whole house like I tried to do before. Especially, with a little one around. And I find that the way you have the schedule set up, it seems like my house is "clean" on Monday and only gets that much better as the week goes on!!! I am in love with it. I have shared it with several others. My sister loves it and we text each other what we have to get done today! And I find I'm enjoying it! I am just so thankful and encouraged by all the help you give us on the seemingly little things that end up mattering a whole lot. I'm very thankful you met Madame Chic and are spreading the wealth of knowledge.<br /><br />I love the idea of a Turn Off Technology Tuesdays from one of your other readers, and I'll discuss that with my husband. It is completely doable.<br /><br />My little one is down for his afternoon nap now, so I must go, so I can read and eat my lunch! :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11443173497685878931noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7682312585713348709.post-54015556367495789492015-01-12T23:38:14.048-08:002015-01-12T23:38:14.048-08:00Hi,
Just a brief note to say that I followed you...Hi, <br /><br />Just a brief note to say that I followed your advice a few months ago and started eating lunch. As a teacher, this is generally impossible, but in so doing it has improved my quality of life 2 ways: bringing me a moment of peace and pleasure in a busy day, increased nutritional intake. I never dreamed I'd be listening to DeBussy's La Mer in the middle of the school day, but it is so nice. It's an island of calm. Thanks, again!<br /><br />Julia Grayjuliagray19https://www.blogger.com/profile/09834007634419579472noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7682312585713348709.post-76945597939513410272015-01-12T18:36:44.138-08:002015-01-12T18:36:44.138-08:00Every year I give up reading a particular tabloid ...Every year I give up reading a particular tabloid news site for Lent, and I always feel very free and peaceful without it. You have inspired me to just give it up permanently. Thank you for a great post. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7682312585713348709.post-22361471871146833322015-01-12T13:52:31.735-08:002015-01-12T13:52:31.735-08:00Hi Jennifer,
I just finished reading "Lesson...Hi Jennifer,<br /><br />I just finished reading "Lessons from Madame Chic" (a great read) and plan on buying your second book. I'm working on my wardrobe trying to keep only classic pieces that I will use again and again and buy only what I love. I really enjoy reading your blog...I am gradually working my way through it back to the beginning.<br /><br />I must chime in with Natalie, I almost laughed out loud when I read her comment. I too started selling on ebay about a year ago to declutter. I was checking my account every 2 or 3 hours for watchers or buyers...I thought to myself, surely no one else is as obsessed as I am. :) <br /><br />My other time sucker is reading blogs, although I have cut back to a few favorites because I realized that my house is suffering as a result. Not a good thing.<br /><br />I look forward to your weekly posts/videos. <br /><br />Have a wonderful week!<br /><br />Linda in San DiegoLRS4AMANDAhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17312878555775487787noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7682312585713348709.post-60789272122296845322015-01-12T12:17:11.991-08:002015-01-12T12:17:11.991-08:00Hi Jennifer
My distraction is you! Just recently ...Hi Jennifer<br /><br />My distraction is you! Just recently came across you and have read both your books and am now reading all your blog posts and watching your videos back to 2008. <br />I have packed away 80% of my clothes, loving the capsule wardrobe, bought a Clarisonic, an Urban Decay Naked palette and have been loving meals at the table. Particularly love Bach for Breakfast! <br />Thanks for inspiration. <br />And...... Once I have read your whole blog I"ll get offline and practise the piano and learn more Italion.<br /><br />Bisous xxSusanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16321050716972190950noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7682312585713348709.post-49832188620565559872015-01-12T09:48:07.860-08:002015-01-12T09:48:07.860-08:00I love your short & sweet messages! Help with...I love your short & sweet messages! Help with meal planning & preparation would be great.<br />With appreciation, SandraAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15310052419903494232noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7682312585713348709.post-3889497987584674942015-01-12T07:19:12.928-08:002015-01-12T07:19:12.928-08:00I think this will strike a nerve with a lot of us!...I think this will strike a nerve with a lot of us! Funny how I can let 10 minutes scrolling through Facebook evaporate without noticing, but I can't find 10 minutes to sit down and read the Bible, or straighten up a pile of clutter, or get the post-dinner kitchen cleanup out of the way. Thanks for the kick in the pants!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17897935648568896475noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7682312585713348709.post-23856693873870154892015-01-12T06:12:48.076-08:002015-01-12T06:12:48.076-08:00Busted! That was my thought when I saw the title o...Busted! That was my thought when I saw the title of this week's post. I do a lot of my work from home and think I may have a compulsion towards distraction which affects not only my ability to use my time wisely but also my presence in any given moment. Case in point: had I not checked this website for the weekly video, I would have already turned on the TV and spent 10 minutes trying to find something to play "in the background" before I got my work started. After reading the post and watching the video, I don't think I can let myself get away with that! I really appreciate the accountability that this website inspires. Thank you Jennifer! Hopefully this morning will be one of many in which I am fully focused on the task at hand and present in the moment.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04525674696241580054noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7682312585713348709.post-85392839890544590802015-01-12T03:11:47.114-08:002015-01-12T03:11:47.114-08:00Hi Jennifer!
I am reading and periodically rereadi...Hi Jennifer!<br />I am reading and periodically rereading both of your wonderful, life enhancing books. I am so happy to be able to have the companion posts and videos.<br /><br />My distraction is the internet, as I find excuses to extend limits I set for myself. Then, I don't get any of the enriching things done that I want to do, like needlework, which has been on my list for years! <br /><br />Can you talk a little bit about balance, please? I find my other "go to" activity to be cleaning, which sounds good, but this is out of balance for me. It is easier to just do a cleaning activity than to motivate myself to create!<br />Thanks and bless you!<br />LisaLollyghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00685917202250783234noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7682312585713348709.post-57955988987193013542015-01-12T00:21:55.617-08:002015-01-12T00:21:55.617-08:00Jennifer, Thank you for another fabulous post that...Jennifer, Thank you for another fabulous post that is completely on point and coincidently one of my goals for 2015. It is great to think of other people making similar endeavours around the world to cut their screen time. We have chosen not to have a TV in our house but this year I am also taking the year off Facebook and (Guilty Addiction) Candy Crush as these are my 2 biggest time sucks. You know you pick up your phone to check the time and 5 minutes later you are still scrolling your Facebook news feed. So Thank you once again for your continuing inspiration Andii<br />http://adomesticgoddes.blogspot.com.au/Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02676845481351472875noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7682312585713348709.post-30854801322979335482015-01-11T21:56:01.699-08:002015-01-11T21:56:01.699-08:00Hi Jennifer, it's good to see you back. I'...Hi Jennifer, it's good to see you back. I've only recently come to owning (and using) an iPad and a (smart) phone so being online has meant coming here to sit down at my computer -- which involves a deliberate decision. I'm determined not to lose that, the ipad and iphone will, I hope, simply make some things more convenient.Rosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14751315680374413649noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7682312585713348709.post-42878482166020114692015-01-11T21:30:57.557-08:002015-01-11T21:30:57.557-08:00I feel like I was meant to read this today! I rece...I feel like I was meant to read this today! I recently noticed that I was spending way too much time on my cell phone looking at Instagram/ FaceBook, etc and that most of my free time was being wasted doing this. I especially seemed to do this in the evening when I was tired, instead of reading (which I normally love to do). So three days ago, I banned myself from looking at my phone after 8pm and it's so much better! More hobbies, more reading, less time wasting internet. Thank you for the encouragement!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03277964394152252944noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7682312585713348709.post-11137284745349654742015-01-11T20:54:57.586-08:002015-01-11T20:54:57.586-08:00So enjoyed this post! It's an eye opener for m...So enjoyed this post! It's an eye opener for me.I am a grandmother and as I live alone I spend a lot of time on the internet and watching television, time that I could spend doing more enriching things, like listening to beautiful music, reading good books ( loved both of yours)etc...Although I'm older I enjoy your blogs very much, read all your post and am always happy when Sunday arrives to see your video... Thank you so much Jennifer, yo are an inspiration for women of all ages. xxyvettebujoldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10919122506239531598noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7682312585713348709.post-41931379953952865242015-01-11T20:02:51.477-08:002015-01-11T20:02:51.477-08:00HI Jennifer - I have a two year old and so when sh...HI Jennifer - I have a two year old and so when she goes to bed or takes her nap I often justify my time on the computer as my time to "rest". But I have to say I finally have tuned in enough to realize these "distractions" are NOT restful moments at all. I live in a cold climate so winters are harder. But in the summer when I have a minute or two I cut flowers, work in my garden, water plans. <br />Some of my bad distractions are creating lists. I'm a never ending detailed "to do list" person. It's a waste of time for me and just makes my anxious. So I each day I try to really choose 2 maybe 3 things to accomplish. It gets done, I feel better, I haven't spent all this time writing mega lists. And it's a more sane way to live.<br />Thank you for your words!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06674703582229087216noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7682312585713348709.post-90839094575244463552015-01-11T19:53:11.546-08:002015-01-11T19:53:11.546-08:00My husband and I have been talking about this exac...My husband and I have been talking about this exact topic all week! This is such a major obstacle of modern life, and its difficult to overcome. I've been working on it for about a year now, and I'm glad my husband is now too. <br /><br />I found that I wasted a lot of time on social media. It wasn't enriching my life, only distracting from it, and it bothered me to realize I was wasting so much time seeing how other people are living their lives instead of living my own. It also made me less content with what I have, and I found myself endlessly "shopping but not really shopping," as you described in your video. Over the past month, I've deleted all of my social media accounts, and it has made a big difference. Now I just go directly to my favorite two blogs (including this one).<br /><br />I manage a staff wellness program at my workplace, and one challenge my team and I put to the staff is Turn Off Technology Tuesdays. We encourage everyone after work to choose forms of entertainment which don't involve screens. At the end of June, we are giving away gift certificates to a local book store to the three people who take on the challenge the most.<br /><br />Thank you for discussing this important topic!Maureenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06332498327460781946noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7682312585713348709.post-34990612469153138692015-01-11T19:38:31.701-08:002015-01-11T19:38:31.701-08:00Hi Jennifer! I'm new to your blog and have re...Hi Jennifer! I'm new to your blog and have really been enjoying it. I had a similar experience to you in that I studied abroad in Spain and fell in love with all things Spanish. My only regret is that unlike you, I didn't pay enough attention to the details of the lifestyle to figure out what I liked about it- I just knew I adored it! I guess I couldn't see the trees for the forest (or however that saying goes). <br /><br />Anyway, I wanted to share something with you about the whole capsule wardrobe phenomenon. I definitely do not yet have a capsule wardrobe if you were to look in my closet. However, after thinking about what I mostly wear, I realized that I do indeed tend to wear the same favorite pants, jeans, tops, etc. over and over again. So in essence, I really do have a capsule wardrobe that defines my style; I just haven't taken the step to get rid of the other items I don't wear. Your blog inspired me to do just that! I am setting aside next weekend to do it and couldn't be more excited. <br /><br />Anyway, sorry to be so lomg winded and off topic- I was just so inspired by your blog that I wanted to share. Best- JillMommyoftwohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14057641295906319937noreply@blogger.com