tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7682312585713348709.post5802294638087821750..comments2024-03-28T04:17:20.834-07:00Comments on The Daily Connoisseur: My Thanksgiving Table 2015The Daily Connoisseurhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13843902889491327636noreply@blogger.comBlogger21125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7682312585713348709.post-24982217434434348012015-11-30T06:12:50.381-08:002015-11-30T06:12:50.381-08:00Traveling to Europe for the first time, tips pleas...Traveling to Europe for the first time, tips please? <br /><a href="http://www.soleto-travel.it/" rel="nofollow">Chauffeur service</a>Rose Mariahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04080536952744694488noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7682312585713348709.post-50128687762821278112015-11-28T13:18:37.015-08:002015-11-28T13:18:37.015-08:00I have enjoyed seeing your Thanksgiving table, Jen...I have enjoyed seeing your Thanksgiving table, Jennifer. Like you, even at our great age, we don't have everything we would like for a 'perfect' table, but as you say, that doesn't matter. What matters is thought, preparation and, of course, thankfulness for what we do have. <br />I must say I like the rather modern idea of 'layering' though, that is something I'd not considered, and I also like your rattan place mats. They can look smart of casual, depending on what you put with them. We don't have a full set of anything any more, things broken over the years, etc, but in recent months I visited an antiques centre and found 6 lovely cut glass tumblers plus a cut glass jug (suitable for juice or cream, not a tall water jug) for around £25, which is cheap as chips, the reason being that cut glass is no longer fashionable (which is a shame as it's so beautiful). Furthermore, a couple of years ago I similarly ought five wine glasses, also cut glass, for £15. Yes, five for £15. <br />I do like the idea of that butler's book, I shall look for that on Amazon. Even though we don't 'entertain' as such now, just family and occasionally a couple of friends, it's nice to know the correct way of doing things, and we can all learn a new trick or two. <br />The other day it was my husband's 'big' birthday (no, I won't say how big!) and we had a little birthday tea-party to celebrate. I moved the furniture around so that there would be seating in our sitting room for 12 people, with small tables for their cups and saucers and plates, etc, and laid the dining table buffet style, so that I could serve the tea from the dining table and hand it around (this is what you must always do at a tea-party: the tea must come first, reminiscent of the days when tea was a most precious commodity) and the first friend to arrive said, "Oh, it's so formal!" It wasn't formal to me, just nice cups and saucers and glasses laid out, and chairs and tables at the ready, flowers in the room, lamps lit, but this demonstrates, I think, how very informal we have become, how standards have slipped. But once everyone had arrived and were seated and obviously enjoying themselves, and I'd handed around tea (Indian or Earl Grey) and savouries, the friend (a chap, I might add) looked to be enjoying himself as much as the next person, so perhaps he's now a convert to doing things stylishly but not showily! <br />Margaret P galanthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14190356279359463949noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7682312585713348709.post-89266770626248836642015-11-28T05:53:51.227-08:002015-11-28T05:53:51.227-08:00This is a pretty table! I am very fond of dinner p...This is a pretty table! I am very fond of dinner parties and love to use what I have in new ways, to new effect. I have inherited several sets of china from various ancestors and rotate it seasonally (I got rid of our 'everyday' china and simply use the best as our 'everyday'...same thing with the silverware.) Last Advent I hosted a week's worth of small dinner parties and used a different set of china each time-just for my own amusement and interest. <br /><br />Another inexpensive practice to spruce up the table, especially if you are hosting a large gathering, is to purchase a set of matched or coordinating plates at a thrift store, use them for the event, and donate them back. Around here a thrift store plate is about 25 cents. I've hosted showers and parties where I spend less than $5.00 on lovely china (I typically find something that coordinates with items I already have--it gives a nice, layered, mixed look)...and it's unique! And then the items just go home to the thrift store for someone else to use. Of course it goes without saying that this is superior in terms of ambiance and environmental impact than using paper plates...:) <br /><br />Hope you had a happy Thanksgiving!<br />Pollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09403233175071026416noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7682312585713348709.post-32975604875340001792015-11-25T19:38:09.162-08:002015-11-25T19:38:09.162-08:00My "china pattern" is vintage Fiesta War...My "china pattern" is vintage Fiesta Ware, some of which was my grandmother's, that I've added to over the years as I find pieces at vintage shops and garage sales. We don't have "good china" and "everyday china". I love Fiesta Ware, so we use it every day. I know that a lot of people just collect it and keep it on their shelves to look at, but that seems wasteful to me. I think that things like to be used and know that they are loved. My glassware is also vintage -- the pattern is gold leaves on a frosted glass background. ( I was delighted when I was watching Mad Men and saw that Don and Betty Draper had my glassware, lol.) I've found very nice tablecloths and napkins at garage sales as well. One doesn't have to spend a lot to have a nicely set table. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7682312585713348709.post-52180963112498850902015-11-24T19:24:36.626-08:002015-11-24T19:24:36.626-08:00Hi Jennifer,
this is a brilliant post demonstrati...Hi Jennifer, <br />this is a brilliant post demonstrating the French ideals of making your guests feel welcome, acknowledging the efforts you put in, and making every meal an occasion. <br /><br />My mother is the master of table decorating and I only ever hope to emulate her brilliance. She is an ex-air stewardess and as such, she entertains guests with a real flourish of hospitality. I am in awe at the beauty of the tables she arranges for special ocassions and it has taught me to always make an effort in my home now that I have my own children. My daughter adores it when I put flowers and candles out and even my bold-as-brass son wants to be involved in dinner party planning now. <br /><br />I have recently moved to a new country and we are living out of suitcases in a rental property, but that doesn't mean that I don't pick some flowers from the garden to arrange in a pretty (and empty!) wine bottle. <br /><br />In my blog I share the table decoration that I have prepared at my work here for the holiday season. http://antiguaviews.com/2015/11/25/decorating-the-table-for-thanksgiving/<br />Wishing you a happy Thanksgiving also. JennieJenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12185897516865556799noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7682312585713348709.post-89566977235522254642015-11-24T10:59:43.763-08:002015-11-24T10:59:43.763-08:00I have an idea for Lillian, and really anyone who ...I have an idea for Lillian, and really anyone who is subject to "buffet style" entertaining due to the size or preference of their extended family. <br /><br />I was at a church party this last weekend that was beautifully decorated. Each table was personally decorated by one hostess, who brought in her own personal china to set the table. Obviously with 100+ people, you don't want to run the risk of someone bringing china up to the buffet and then dropping it! The way they dealt is to set the table with china, then place one of those "nicer" clear plates atop the china to bring to the buffet: that way you don't run the risk of breaking it, but you can still see the beautiful china underneath. If you don't want to use plastic, you could do a similar idea, using simple white plates on top with china peeking out underneath. <br /><br />Obviously this isn't as formal as you may wish, but it might be a nice way to marry your family's more casual proclivities with your own desire for chicness! And who knows, perhaps it might make your guests more comfortable by just giving them a little "taste" of formality, and inspire them to include more formality in their lives! <br /><br />At the end of the day, I think we have to take our ideals and tweak them to work best with our families and our situation...Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15843264866971466420noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7682312585713348709.post-29546450248974077222015-11-24T06:42:20.739-08:002015-11-24T06:42:20.739-08:00What a great post! Here's to a wonderful Thank...What a great post! Here's to a wonderful Thanksgiving!!! I particularly loved your comment about not stressing out and focusing on the reason for the day not whether you have matching napkins. SO true.<br /><br />Happy Thanksgiving!<br /><br />MLM.Lanehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02898845239082082494noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7682312585713348709.post-79780384863972681662015-11-24T04:39:58.729-08:002015-11-24T04:39:58.729-08:00Hi Jennifer, Thank you for sharing this with us......Hi Jennifer, Thank you for sharing this with us...it looks lovely.<br />I find it is getting harder to find good quality, reasonably priced table linens in elegant colours and patterns. One tip you might enjoy is using your lovely cream cloth for all your special dinners, but collecting a few seasonal runners...such as burnt orange for the fall, a Christmas one, and a brighter floral or muti-toned runner for spring/ summer. They then become part of your tradition.<br /><br />When it is time to buy new napkins, cutlery or glasses, think long term and buy at least 1/3 more in quantity than you need. It is easier and more economical to buy extras for your sets at the beginning than to search for replacements years later when pieces get lost or damaged.<br /><br />Some glasses that we love that are beautiful, versatile and very sturdy are villeroy and boch Boston. We have clear and green ones and use them everyday. I love the way they look and feel.<br /><br />http://www.villeroy-boch.com/shop/collections/collections-of-glass/all-collections-from-a-to-z/boston-crystal-glassware.html<br /><br />I wish you and you family a wonderful Thanksgiving.Evalinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12820455386922167585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7682312585713348709.post-17412058133548623502015-11-23T22:17:05.553-08:002015-11-23T22:17:05.553-08:00Jennifer, your table looks lovely. I agree that t...Jennifer, your table looks lovely. I agree that things don't have to match or be super fancy, but it is nice to set things in a pleasing manner to make the day special. This year we will only have our daughter visiting, who is a vegetarian, so I'll be making a chicken for my husband and I instead of a turkey, with lots of side dishes for us all to enjoy. I will be setting the table with a gold tablecloth and rust colored cloth napkins. I bought some flowers at the grocery store that include yellow roses and some green pom pom looking flowers. We'll have water goblets that I picked up at a yard sale years ago, along with the chain store wine glasses and qvc silverware. Just because there will only be 3 of us, I still want to make it a special day and make the table pretty. Like you, I am saddened by the casualness that has crept into the American mindset. I want everyone to be comfortable, but this does not include pajamas for all occasions. Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours! You are such an inspiration!<br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17768101829201751930noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7682312585713348709.post-6908071885162678672015-11-23T20:05:58.084-08:002015-11-23T20:05:58.084-08:00Jennifer, your table setting is lovely. Happy Than...Jennifer, your table setting is lovely. Happy Thanksgiving. Debbie From Illinoishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07964971638123949198noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7682312585713348709.post-86581561159832654202015-11-23T17:48:59.652-08:002015-11-23T17:48:59.652-08:00Jennifer, I so love you and your blog, subtle yet ...Jennifer, I so love you and your blog, subtle yet elegant. To me, it's a breath of fresh air...displaying good taste, good manners, the loveliness one can experience in everyday life with just a bit of effort and thought expended...unlimited funds not required.<br /> Patriciahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09298772533416829003noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7682312585713348709.post-47248340109266327982015-11-23T17:15:18.443-08:002015-11-23T17:15:18.443-08:00Your table is very elegant! Have a wonderful Thank...Your table is very elegant! Have a wonderful Thanksgiving. I am thankful for your weekly messages. Andrea Whttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16330554341718031630noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7682312585713348709.post-19304823439910829732015-11-23T14:35:56.623-08:002015-11-23T14:35:56.623-08:00Jennifer that looks beautiful. At the end of the d...Jennifer that looks beautiful. At the end of the day, people are just happy to be fed, to be around their loved one's, and to feel taken care of. Nobody notices (or cares) if the napkins don't match. I wish we had Thanksgiving in Australia, it looks like such a beautiful holiday. Keep up the good work. I think you are amazing.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03342246865218387476noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7682312585713348709.post-79738894266010609422015-11-23T14:15:19.452-08:002015-11-23T14:15:19.452-08:00My husband's chocolate, bourbon pecan pie! Our...My husband's chocolate, bourbon pecan pie! Our pear glazed turkey and cornbread jalapeño stuffing runs a close 2nd and 3rd. <br /><br />Happy Thanksgiving!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11443173497685878931noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7682312585713348709.post-41932948888356552352015-11-23T14:01:47.253-08:002015-11-23T14:01:47.253-08:00Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family Jennifer...Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family JenniferRosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14751315680374413649noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7682312585713348709.post-28403642119024225522015-11-23T13:53:45.578-08:002015-11-23T13:53:45.578-08:00What a beautiful table! And I didn't notice t...What a beautiful table! And I didn't notice the white napkin until you pointed it out. I will most likely create something nice for our table - only to have it completely dismantled once dinner comes out as the husband prefers to put as much of the food on the table for dinner. Have a wonderful Thanksgiving!Gigihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05467164195744234746noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7682312585713348709.post-66204635773733424292015-11-23T12:27:30.922-08:002015-11-23T12:27:30.922-08:00The best part of Thanksgiving is family, friends, ...The best part of Thanksgiving is family, friends, great food...and NO presents! Maureen @Raising The Capable Studenthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03608938586810203686noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7682312585713348709.post-28779620791218307422015-11-23T12:02:49.806-08:002015-11-23T12:02:49.806-08:00Let me begin by complimenting your china. It is be...Let me begin by complimenting your china. It is beautiful. What a treasure!<br />We have quite a large extended family gathering for Thanksgiving each year and cannot all fit at one table. In fact, this year there will be four tables! I will seat eight in the dining room, two groups of four on folding tables in the living room and one table of six in the kitchen. I have just finished ironing the table linens and polishing the silver flatware ( inherited silverplate which is as charming as it is sentimental ) Even with a large group, I do not defer to paper plates, as so many of my friends have recommended. Each table will be set with table linens (some more casual that others) centerpieces and china. Yes, it is more labor intensive, but I believe the rewards far outweigh the effort. <br />I also would like to share that when each grandchild turns 4, ( old enough to manage drinking from a "real cup" without too many mishaps ) they are given their own monogrammed pewter cup ( wish I could afford silver! :-) to be used at all our family meals. Just another touch to make our shared meals special and hopefully to create some lasting memories. <br />I am genuinely thankful that I am able to celebrate holidays and many "ordinary days" with my family around our table(s). Susanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16258921396860603679noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7682312585713348709.post-69548910996828574452015-11-23T11:55:07.242-08:002015-11-23T11:55:07.242-08:00Your Thanksgiving table is beautiful! I agree that...Your Thanksgiving table is beautiful! I agree that we should use what we have, and that it's the love and warmth of the home that matter. I have my mother's china and a collection of vintage linens that I love to use. Thank you and enjoy the holiday!Pammiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16719546391995977011noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7682312585713348709.post-70571572682509323972015-11-23T11:16:47.191-08:002015-11-23T11:16:47.191-08:00Hi Jennifer! I have a question about your table. ...Hi Jennifer! I have a question about your table. It looks like all the plates are set out on the table at the start of the meal. Do you also put the food on the table? My family is pretty large. Every year we get together (often 20+ people) and my grandmother, aunts, and mother all prepare the meal in the kitchen. We then say a family prayer and file through, plates in hand, buffet-style. This also means we have to fit everything on one large plate (instead of smaller specifically designed plates the way you have in this video). The tables are otherwise beautifully appointed, but we don't do the place settings that way (and I'm actually not a huge fan of this "buffet style" serving method). <br />I know Madame Chic had a tea cart that she used to roll all the food out at once. How did serving go from there? Was every course out at once on the cart? What if there are lots of people and the food doesn't fit?<br /><br />Lillianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05109874472635300574noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7682312585713348709.post-45465889326210811032015-11-23T10:30:50.676-08:002015-11-23T10:30:50.676-08:00So lovely! You are such an inspiration. You just m...So lovely! You are such an inspiration. You just made me feel som much better with my uneven set of old napkins! What does it matter that one of the is not like the other! Looking forward to more of this! Want to now about your Christmas decorations! Jane Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02088121499782881093noreply@blogger.com